People before things

Again, I find the ideas for my blogs in the strangest places. Today's blog I got from a wrapper from a piece of Dove chocolate. I notice that when you unwrap each one there is a little saying inside. Yesterday mine said: Always put people before things. It is from Val in Hinson, TN.

I know that seems like a common sense thing, but for some it isn't. We've all heard about keeping up with the Jones. Well, if the Jones are a happy, well-adjusted loving family, that care for each other and shows it, then by all means. But if it means trying to acquire the possessions they have to be as good as them, if not better, then no.

Having things has been and always will be a status symbol. But the status symbol I want to brag about is my and my families happiness and contentment in what we do have, not what society says we should have. Too bad a lot of society sets their standards on belongings. I know that those people are missing the chance to get to know 'real' people. I know there are 'real' rich people. I'm not talking financially. I am talking rich in the heart. The real rich people are good people, who have friends who love them and would do for them in their time of need. And to acquire friends like that you have to be willing to return the favor.

Things can be comforting, but in a superficial way. A plush cashmere blanket will keep you warm, but wouldn't a cheaper blanket with a loved one wrapped in it keep you warmer, both inside and out?

People are learning more and more in this economic age that things aren't as easily acquired as before. But if you put forth the proper effort you can still acquire friends. And pound for pound friends are worth so much more. When you have a bad day yes maybe a gourmet dinner can fill your belly, but wouldn't treating your kids to McDonalds bring you more smiles and peace?

I've seen movies where the stars have houses that just rival any palace, but why is it most of the time they have issues? I'm not saying poor people don't have issues, but if you have your army of loved ones backing you up, chances are you'll make it through those issues with a greater ease.

So if you are one of the lucky ones and you have a lot of things, stop for a moment and think, do my friends and family far out way those things? If you can answer yes to that question, then Awesome! If you can't answer yes to that, then instead of engaging on a journey to acquire more things - that will only temporarily make you feel better - broaden your efforts to acquiring more friends.

People before things will prove so much more beneficial in the long run. True friends will be by your side no matter what. In our uncertain economic times your things could very well disappear, true friends won't. So be prepared. Stock on people, not things.